Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Dr Tariq Saeed of Mandi Bahuiddin



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Although my ancestors, five generations back where from places all over the current Mandi Bahauddin District, I had never been to Mandi. Marriages across the river ended way back and senior generation relatives who used to frequent the events of marriage and death passed on with time. I always wanted to be there but it never materialized. 

When Tariq Saeed, my classmate from Rawalpindi Medical College who is from Mandi asked me to visit him a few years back, I decided to take him on his offer. He is a cousin to my Abdalian entrymate Javed Iqbal (who earned the nickname of 'Mandi" early on in eighth grade when he surprised many of city dwellers in Hasanabdal in 1973 that Mandi is a sprawling metropolis in the heartland of Punjab). 

Somehow the plan did not coalesce until now. This May, 2013, I went to Mandi. It was worth the trip. Tariq used to tell me about his clinic and the medical center he had made and  how the rural medicine works. Tariq has always been of the religious bend and had a deep sense of community service; but what I saw was much more than I thought of.



Many of our friends and colleagues we know have started practice in their hometowns. Many have converted their old family houses which are now in the middle of the growing towns into a clinic or a medical center. Tariq has done the same. His family house which his father had built was supposedly outside the center of the town. By now it is in the middle of the town. He raised it to ground, build a four level hospital Shifa Clinic, and has brought in many specialists to the place. He has family quarters on the top floor. But this is not what makes him different. His contribution to the community esp in his ancestral village where he goes everyday, is what is unique to him.

With time, he had moved his family to Islamabad, for their education, so he lives in Mandi alone with his parents. His two daughters are medical students, both married to physicians, one a nephorologist in USA and the other an orthopedists about to start his own practice in Mandi, in Shifa Hospital. His son, not surprisingly, is taken out of school to finish Hifz Quran in two years. After that he will probably go back to the regular school system.

In summers, Tariq commutes weekly on Thursdays to Islamabad, spends the night there and comes back Friday night. That is his weekend off. That is how we decided to travel. He would be in Pindi area on Thursday and I will travel back with him on Friday after the prayers. 

Cell phone has made a big changes in our lives. Tariq has taken the advantage of using the instrument on his daily and weekly commutes to connect with the class mates and everybody else. He is the one in our class who knows most about every body. This is despite the fact that he has no presence on internet, Facebook included.  By US standards it is quite dangerous to call and drive, but he is quite at ease with it.

Travelling on GT road from Pindi to Lahore, one sees the Upper Jhelum Canal and the road along with it, next to Military College Sarai Alamgir. I have traveled on that road hundreds of times during my student years but never thought much about the canal. We make a right turn to head towards Mandi. The new road is now on the east side of the canal, the old one was on the west side. This is the same road where the abandoned car of outspoken journalist Saleem Shahzad was found and his dead body was found in the canal. One can see the effect of the road on the economy and the culture of the side of canal. 

Wider and better roads do bring in prosperity and mobility to the rural areas and that is why building betters roads have led to election victories most of the times. Close to Head Rasul Barrage, we make a turn and lead into Mandi.

The Shifa Clinic is quite impressive, with a ramp going all the way to the top floor. After a short rest, we headed to the dinner with my old Abdalian Classmate Dr Shahid Naseem. click here

Mandi Bahauddin is one of the relatively new towns made out of an old village Chak 51. It has wide roads. It was laid by the British after the Rasul Headworks were laid, around 1920's.


The next day we headed towards his morning clinic. That is where the rubber meets the road. Tariq's family belongs to a village Gojra some twenty minutes south on the Gujrat Sargodha Road, colloquially also known as the Gondal Bar as mostly Gondals are from there. They come in all forms and varieties, sunnies, shias, Piplias, Muslim Leagueis, winners and losers in elections, it is all within the big baradari. 

Along the way is the newly minted Darbar of Maulana Jalaluddin of Bhikhi now appropriately known as Bhikhi Sharif. His son Hazrat Mazhar Qayyum Shah Mashhadi aka Hazrat Sani Sahib ( the second one) is quite active in politics. The late Maulana was optically challenged but one Ramzan he convinced the population to break their fast at ten in morning, as he had evidence of moon sighting the night before. 

What I saw in Gojra I would not have believed if someone else told me about it. The old family house is converted into an outpatient health facility. We reached there by 830 in the morning and there were at least two hundred patients waiting to be seen. All of them and more would be seen in the next four to six hours. They were separately lined up in men's and women's section. Patients in group of five or ten were seen at a time, either from the male side or the female side. They will be charged a token fee of Rupees 50, given some medications to take, and a pharmacy available for extra medications. This all goes non stop. Tariq does that on daily basis.  

What he earns out of it? A lot of goodwill, peace of mind and spiritual satisfaction. I cannot think of any way I can achieve that in my professional life and felt envious of that. It is not only me, but in my opinion none of the acclaimed specialist friends who have busy and stellar practices in the big cities can claim that kind of satisfaction; a son of soil who is also a healer within the community can do a lot good. God bless him for his work.

Half way into his hours, I left him and moved on. His brother in law and son in law gave me a lift on the ever bumpy road to the Motorway, ( the only link road to Motor way which is still very damaged, even when it was the home territory of Nazar Gondal). Next stop was Faisalabad where an old paternal cousin once removed lives. I had to have a chat with him about the old stories of the family before either of us get too old to talk about it.

Tariq Saeed is one of those thorough gentlemen who are always looking for an opportunity to be of help and comfort to you.He was a gracious host, as always and it was a trip worth it in more than one ways. 

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Shahid Nasim Iqbal- Abdalian Entrymate

Meeting after 35 years.


Yes it is Shahid Nasim of Haider Wing.

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I met with him in Mandi Bahauddin on Friday May 31st, 2013 after almost thirty five years.

In the last five years or so, many of our age have reconnected to old class mates through internet and social media. Almost everybody I know has either an email group or FB page of their class fellows, of school mates, college mates and professional colleges. Still some manage to remain outside the reaches of these electronic catchers. Shahid Nasim is one of them who is blissfully spared of this media buzz.

It is strange that while everybody knew in the first few weeks of Hasanabdal that Javed Iqbal is from Mandi and that put Mandi Bahauddin on the map for the rest of us, nobody made the connection that his wing-mate Shahid Nasim is also from the same area. Perhaps Shahid was from the periphery of Mandi and not form the great metropolis Javed  led the others believe about his town.

I think Shahid Nasim was the most soft spoken kind gentleman we had in our entry. Tameer may be the close second. We in Jinnah Wing used to see him all the times heading to the masjid five times a day from the very beginning.He was tall and slender, a shy person  who had no particular interest in extra curricular activities except basketball and prayers.


He is a quite person, he was perhaps the only person admitted to QuadeAzam Medical College Bahawalpur. He told me that Zubair was also admitted there but soon got migrated to KE. After graduation he started working in his home area and except for one year he spent in Lahore for a diploma, he is in Phalia. He works in the Tehsil HQ Hospital Phalia and in the evenings has a busy practice in his home village. It is called Sohawa (different than what you see on GT Road). He has grown up kids and I think two of them are in medical colleges. He maintains a second home in Lahore for the kids and is very content to stay where he is.

I think the best quality of life is of those who are able to live a full working life in their natural habitat. For a rurally grown man, there is no more satisfaction than someone kine Shahid who works in his own area, in a purely rural atmosphere, busy to the minute, and earnng good income and a lot more goodwill and satisfaction. Similar is the story of Tariq Saeed (Javed Mandi's cousin and my class mate from RMC) who lives in Mandi and works both in Mandi and his ancestral village Gojra (not the big Gojra) a few miles away. I will write about him in a separate post.

He is a deeply religious man and I was expecting a long beard. While waiting for him in the hotel lobby with Tariq Saeed  I saw him coming and immediately recognized him. He looked the same, and surprisingly without the beard.

We spend the evening there in the restaurant. It was time well spend and worth the effort to reach out to him. His cool quite demeanor was as fresh as it was in 1973. A very contented man, with simple living and clear thinking.

He is not much in contact with the rest of the class. He did meet Ali Razaaq once and is in touch with Mohammad Ali, a fellow Haiderain, who like him is working and living in a small town for most of the professional live. 

Shahid Nasim does not have an email account, does not have time and interest in the Internet and uses the cellphone as the preferred mode of communication. He can be reached at (01192)-3007748106.